Congratulations! You’re embarking on the incredible journey of pregnancy, complete with its joys and challenges. As your due date approaches, the thrill of impending motherhood mingles with the realization that your little one will soon need to make their grand entrance into the world.This thought can be quite overwhelming, but fear not! I am here to share five tips to help you and your pelvis feel fully prepared and empowered for labor and delivery.
1. Embrace Whole Body Relaxation. As you approach the 34-35 week mark, it’s time for a shift in perspective. Up until this point, your focus has been on strengthening your body to support your growing baby and prevent any aches and pains that might arise. However, at around 34 weeks, it’s crucial to transition from strengthening to relaxation. This doesn’t mean becoming a couch potato; you still should remain active, but your exercise routine may look different.
2. Start Birth Preparation Exercises. Approach labor and delivery with the same dedication you would as preparing for a marathon. Just as you wouldn’t run a marathon without training, you shouldn’t go into delivery without preparing your pelvis. The goal with these exercises is essentially to create “muscle memory” for the pelvis and pelvic floor muscles. These exercises mimic the positions your body experiences during delivery, ensuring you’re well prepared. Come see me for my birth prep appointment to learn exactly what these are!
3. Prepare the Perineum. Tearing during childbirth is a common concern for many expectant mothers. One effective way to reduce or avoid tearing is by prepping your perineal tissue to be more pliable. You can achieve this by gently bouncing on a birthing ball or by practicing perineal massage. Begin perineal massage around 36 weeks, dedicating 3-5 minutes daily, using either a pelvic wand or enlisting the help of your partner.
4. Familiarize Yourself with Birthing Positions. Minimizing tearing and facilitating labor progress is closely related to body positioning. Throughout all stages of labor, it’s essential to “free the sacrum” to allow your pelvis to fully expand and open, providing more space for your pelvic floor muscles to stretch. Even if you opt for an epidural, there are safe and effective positions to consider, such as sidelying. Discuss these options with your healthcare provider and establish a plan moving forward.
5. Perfect your Breathing. Your breathing technique during labor and delivery can make a world of difference. When it’s time to push, focus on exhaling through pursed lips, as if you’re blowing out a candle, during each contraction. This technique allows you to engage your core while keeping your pelvic floor relaxed and open. Once in the thick of delivery you don’t want to forget it so practice a lot beforehand because we all know that practice makes perfect!
If these tips still feel overwhelming, don’t hesitate to schedule an in-person or virtual birth preparation appointment with me. We will dive into each of these strategies in detail and I'll provide more insights. Above all, remember that your body was designed for this, and you, mama, are more than capable of handling it with grace and strength!
Contact me at Activcore Castle Rock to get started now.
Disclaimer: The views expressed in this article are based on the opinion of the author, unless otherwise noted, and should not be taken as personal medical advice. The information provided is intended to help readers make their own informed health and wellness decisions.